Saturday, May 24, 2014

Say hello to my new friend...

My last post was on my recent purchase of kinky curly hair.

Meet my newest item to the 'Illusions Collection,' Mademoiselle Erica.



iLOVE when my hair turns out just how I wanted it to. I'm working on the pictorial of how I constructed this unit, but wanted to post a picture of the final product. 

Happy growing loves, and stay tuned. 

Saturday, May 17, 2014

Afro X

I've been on the hunt for a new addition to my alter-ego collection. The other day while trolling Instagram, I saw a style created by weave that I've longed to rock. 

So I pulled the trigger and purchased a few bundles. 

After telling a close friend about my purchase and showing her the look I was aiming to achieve, she recommended that I split my wefts in order to minimize bulkiness. 

Christmas came early last night. 

And before I got the have to snap pictures for my upcoming pictorial, I was slicing away.

I used my handy dandy Xacto knife to complete the task. 


Sorry. I promise to document more as I create my unit next week. 

Here's what 2 bundles now looks like:

More pics and a step by step coming soon. 

Happy growing friends. 


Friday, May 9, 2014

Confession

I love to write (obviously). So I have half-filled journals scattered throughout my house on bookshelves, coffee tables, and nightstands.

Anywhoo.

The other day I found my journal from when I was in grad school.

As I began reading, and reminiscing on my decision to go natural, I was disturbed by a handful of entries where I discussed being ‘disappointed’ with my curl pattern.

Like many, being newly natural can be a scary experience. The unknown is daunting, especially when you’re not sure how your hair will look after it’s been cut. Because I had basically shaved all my hair off, I was in the dark on my curl pattern. For the first few months, I had waves and tiny tendrils, which I loved.

But there was a point in Sheeba's infancy (months 3-6) where I was disappointed.
The first time I went natural, my hair had a very loose Quisqueyan curl pattern (3a/3b), so I was expecting the same ‘suave’ hair. I’m not sure what happened this time around, but for the first few months of her life, Sheeba had various curl patterns. The front would wave (with gel), but there was very little going on in the back.

I hated it, so much, that I began comparing myself to …myself.

My Pecola Breedlove phase lasted for a few weeks, in part because I had no idea what to do with my hair. I couldn't wear it down, didn't have the patience to rod set it, and had no clue how to maintain moisture.

I would literally wake up and tie a stocking around her as a headband, and keep it moving. I hated the way she looked, and she hated the way I treated her. It was a vicious cycle, but then I began educating myself on different products and maintenance techniques, and my inner Pecola disappeared.

I meet natrualista’s daily who wish they had my hair. I recently posted a picture in response to the frequent comments I received  from a colleague on how she 'wanted my hair'. I've been there, and know how frustrating it can be to see a style, try to mimic it, only to end up in the same puff you had before.

Over time I learned what worked for my hair, and realized that at the end of the day this head of Haitian coily with a dash of Marabou is growing as The Almighty designed her to; I  can’t be mad at that.
So whether you have 3a or 4z hair, learn to love your locks.

And if the love just isn’t there….you can always turn to weave (but that’s another post).

Saturday, May 3, 2014

Micro Waves

I've been experimental with my weave stash lately. 

The other day I boiled some old Halley's Curls Salon Relaxed wefts that I had... just because. 
The curls came out cute. I may make a unit for the winter. 

It took me 3 hours to boil this hair. Then I found this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ZFZ1EhWtJI

Yes she microwaved her weft for 3 minutes to set the curls. 

I don't think I'll ever look at my microwave the same, let alone use it. 

Friday, May 2, 2014

DC Women's Expo

This Saturday I'll be supporting a colleague at a Women's Expo in the DMV area. If you're free, stop by. The agenda is packed with all types of goodness. 

Details below. For more information contact Adoma at DarkISLovelyInc@gmail.com 


Hope to see you there!

Friday, April 4, 2014

Sweet Surprise

I was surprised by Sheeba this week. I randomly tug on my hair to see where she stretches to, and lately she's been the same length.

Then this happened:
Sorry for the blur. I'm on work related travel and had no one to snap a better pic. 

She's at what my tailor would call my 'high waist'. 

I'm excited and terrified at the same time. By next year she'll be rump length.

IpromiseIwontcuther. 
IpromiseIwontcuther. 
IpromiseIwontcuther. 

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Investing 102

...continued from 'Investing 101'

Once you pull the trigger and invest in some bundles of pure cuticle goodness, you have to be aware of the ‘maintenance’ requirements associated with such acquisition .
Shady Weft

For one, you’ll need to inspect your wefts. I always do this, because there have been times where I have received a badly sewn bundle, installed it, and lived in regret for the next 8 weeks. Inspect both sides, and if anything seems astray or not done properly, contact your vendor for an exchange. One thing I do not do is spend my hard earned money on hair that will morph into a rats nest. No no, not I.

After passing inspection, you need to wash your hair. I’ve only ever received a batch of good smelling hair ONCE in my weave acquisition history. Washing and air drying your bundles will allow you to see if the hair has been processed (steamed or dyed) and will also reveal its true curl pattern. I usually wash and condition with Herbal Essence’s Hello Hydration since I tend to purchase curly hair, and air dry by either laying my bundles on a towel or hanging them up with a pant hanger (the kind that has clips).

Now that your hair is completely dry, you will need to seal your wefts to minimize shedding and reinforce the track. If you’re splitting your wefts, make sure you seal both sides of the track TWICE and allow it to dry for a few hours. I learned to seal my wefts via the University of YouTube. The video I learned from was actually created by Rochelle Yanique - someone I went to college with, but it has since been taken down. This one is a great alternative; just make sure that you purchase the correct glue. I have used both Dritz Fray Check and Aleene’s Fabric Fusion and have no preference, they both do the trick.

Even after sealing, you'll experience some shedding. Nothing major, just a strand or two whenever you comb/ wash your unit. 

If you’re planning on making a wig out of your purchase, now is when you’ll want to set up your wig cap and head. I purchased a generic wig head and increased the circumference to mimic the actual size of my head. This prevents you from creating a wig that doesn’t fit your head snuggly.

If you purchased a closure, you will need to bleach the knots. I once RUINED a closure by using honey, baking soda, and peroxide in lieu of powder and developer. Don't cut corners on this step. Here are a few tuts on how to properly bleach your knots. I honestly never attempted to do it again and prefer to leave that to my hairdresser at StudioTress. 

Now it’s time to sew. There’s no rhyme or reason to the way I lay my tracks, I just make sure that I do not puncture the wefts.

NEVER cut or sew through the wefts.

I recommend folding the weft when you reach the end of one row to begin another. And sewing around the weft.  Cutting is the main culprit of shedding.
'Faux closure' with curly hair

When creating a unit, I like to sew on the inside of the wig cap along my hairline and along the part, this creates a ‘faux’ closure for when I don’t have one. I only recommend this for curly hair. It doesn't have the same effect with straight hair. 

If using a closure, like to pin it onto my weaving cap, then trace around it with white eyeliner. This way I have a general idea of where to finish laying my tracks. Or you can create a centered u shape and rotate it to which ever side you want your part on.

Once you're done sewing, you can either cut out the section intended for your closure, or sew your closure onto the cap with a layer of skin toned pantyhose in between to serve as your 'scalp'.

I'm actually in the process of creating a new 'illusion' so 'Investing 201' will be a pictorial of how I put it all together.

Stay tuned...